Gratitude for every contrast

I note that my relationship with others is basis for most of the expansion (inner want) that I achieve. If someone did not prod me into expansion, I would not have felt the pain of not keeping up with my own growth. In that moment when they helped me understand what I didn't want, then I became acutely aware of what I did want.

 ~ What "bad experience" made you dig deepest and it turned out to be your best experience? ~ 

Giving thanks for every contrast