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Where do you feel most capable?

Self esteem vs self confidence, knowing the difference


Inspired by the distinction between inherent worth and capability

Illustrating the important distinction between self-esteem ("I am") and self-confidence ("I can"). These are often conflated but operate differently.

Self-esteem is about inherent worth—"I am valuable as a person." It's relatively stable and isn't contingent on performance.

Self-confidence is about capability—"I can do this specific thing." It's task-specific and can fluctuate based on experience and skill level.

The illustration shows two figures: one standing confidently with hands on hips (self-assured presence—"I am"), the other in dynamic motion with briefcase and raised arm—but tripping, mid-stumble (capability doesn't mean perfection—"I can" includes falling and getting back up).

You can have high self-esteem but low confidence in a particular area.

Conversely, you can have confidence in specific skills while struggling with overall self-worth.

Understanding the difference matters because they're built differently.

Self-esteem often requires addressing core beliefs about worthiness, while self-confidence typically grows through practice and accumulated experience.

Do you tend to have stronger self-esteem (sense of inherent worth) or self-confidence (belief in your capabilities)?

Or does it vary depending on the context?

Where do you feel most capable?"

Self-esteem vs self-confidence

This design explores the distinction between inherent worth ("I am") and capability ("I can"). Wear it as reminder that worth and capability are separate things, or recognition of building both through different means. Available as hoodies, tees, mugs, and canvas.

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